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#1 nikolalalala

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Posted 30 November 2016 - 07:31 AM

Hi all.

 

Any nerds in here who have a girlfriend and can share some good knowledge about how to get one, when you are a nerd?

 

All help appreciated.



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Posted 30 November 2016 - 09:36 AM

I don't currently have a girlfriend but I've been known to occasionally offer up some wisdom.

 

 

The easiest way to meet people you would like is to join groups or clubs centered around what you enjoy doing (reading, gaming, sports)

 

When approaching someone you have a romantic interest you should make sure to get across that you are actually interested, not just looking for a friendship. Not to say that a friendship can't lead to a romantic/intimate relationship but that's usually an organic process that has to occur on it's own.

 

It tends to be a bit of a turn off to befriend someone in a platonic way then come out a few months later suddenly expressing your deep and endless love out of nowhere.

That only really works in the movies, and even in the movies it's not believable in the least.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 09:55 AM

T i n d e r .

 

 

Also don't look for a girlfriend; you're only young once. There's plenty of hoeing in you.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 10:14 AM

idk: Plan your moves, be clear with your intentions, find a forever girl

 

Gol: Get the fuck out there and slay some pussy you slut


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 11:05 AM

Everyone's different I suppose.

 

I found someone by simply...not looking, not even trying. It kinda fell in my lap and one day a friend of hers approached me.

 

My advice is always to flash a cute smile but be don't weird about it. Just greet & smile a girl, maybe lay down a compliment and if you manage to get a girls attention for more than 2 minutes keep her hooked by striking up any conversation. The thing to know about MOST girls is they already feel awkward. When talking to boys things like, "am I doing the stupid laugh again" or "did I put on enough makeup o.O or too much!?" and "great I'M wearing the my ASS IS FAT pants." Deep conversations can distract girls from any insecurities -- thus making them comfortable around you. Eye contact, even head bobbing for acknowledgments, and smile every two minutes at least.

 

NO FUCKING SMIRKING. A genuine mid-range smile will be fine. Girls love confidence, not cocky. Attention, not affection. Those come later.

 

My girl only got a taste of my nerdy side, after a few dates of rocking her world I whipped it out. Yeah, I whipped it out good.

 

My card collection. At that point she was so into me it was all, "baby is that all you got?"

 

Then I showed her my comic books, and manga, and...oh god I need to stop. Getting myself excited.

 

Hope any of this helps, and some may disagree but it really comes back to the first thing I said: everyone's different. Confidence and attention is huge though.



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Posted 30 November 2016 - 11:43 AM

Maybe the best thing to remember is that all women are not walking pairs of tits that exist to be preyed upon. There is no 'tip to getting a girlfriend' because women are humans and humans are different. For real no one is getting red warning lights from these sorts of threads?

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Posted 30 November 2016 - 11:43 AM

Double post because English 3G coverage is a literal joke.

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Posted 30 November 2016 - 12:39 PM

Maybe the best thing to remember is that all women are not walking pairs of tits that exist to be preyed upon. There is no 'tip to getting a girlfriend' because women are humans and humans are different. For real no one is getting red warning lights from these sorts of threads?

Good advice.

 

By warning lights do you mean that some random shows up and posts one thing and it's weirdly personal?

Because if so I am sure we all see the lights, but what else are we going to talk about?


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 12:49 PM

I get that but also like, just...I dunno. We get one of these sorts of threads like every six months, and I just always picture some neck beardy bastard with a collection of basement acclimatised buy-them-now brides ready behind a locked door.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 12:54 PM

Fair enough.

If you are right though, at least they are trying and not just being salty fat bastards who go online and bash women because they don't get any.

The neck can always be beardier my friend, so I welcome this sort.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 02:34 PM

Nah man, just as creepy, to me.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 02:37 PM

I get that but also like, just...I dunno. We get one of these sorts of threads like every six months, and I just always picture some neck beardy bastard with a collection of basement acclimatised buy-them-now brides ready behind a locked door.

Like Casio? 


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 02:43 PM

It's the third coming.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 04:34 PM

I am so fucking pissed that I missed that era of Nerd Forum.

Godammit.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 04:50 PM

I am so fucking pissed that I missed that era of Nerd Forum.

Godammit.

 

Dude you and me both. 


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 05:08 PM

It was really only like a week. He just left a lasting impression. 


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 07:06 PM

I know he wasn't here for long, but I showed up right immediately after he left and everyone was still reeling from the fuckery.


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Posted 30 November 2016 - 07:36 PM

I know he wasn't here for long, but I showed up right immediately after he left and everyone was still reeling from the fuckery.

So what you're saying is that you could be an extremely elaborate persona that split off from Casio.

 

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Posted 01 December 2016 - 01:22 AM

The holy trinity; Casio, Dr. Casio and Affray.

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Posted 01 December 2016 - 09:17 AM

You fuckers haven't even seen my final form...


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