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[Mister Sympa]

You can borrow mine if you want when it's not in use. =<

 

 *pet pet* you can always talk to me if you're feeling down Sympa. PM me for my Skype or something.

 

I would love to. I have certainly thought about that.

 

And I may well. I forget that PMs exist. I'm currently not speaking to Skype.

[RespawningEnemy]

I'm sorry, Moon Shoes were FUCKING AWESOME.

If you like falling over and looking like an idiot while exerting 10X more effort than a normal jump to get the exact same amount of air you would normally get by jumping, than yes, they are the cat's finest pajamas.

[Rejected]

Is it just me, or does that^ seem par for the course?

if par for the course means normal then... Wait whyyyy???

lol

[Krankykoala]

if par for the course means normal then... Wait whyyyy???

lol

Yes and no. Generally the term "par for the course" is used for pointing out something which is grudgingly true. For instance: Sally dumped you for another guy? Well that's about par for the course.

[The Robstar]

^^^^ I didn't understand what you were sayin either. My extensive knowledge of golf is derived from Happy Gilmore and playing mini-golf (which btw I'm da fuckin bomb at)

 

English is my 1st language....... Or is it???? Hmmmmm

[fae]

^^^^ I didn't understand what you were sayin either. My extensive knowledge of golf is derived from Happy Gilmore and playing mini-golf (which btw I'm da fuckin bomb at)

 

English is my 1st language....... Or is it???? Hmmmmm

I feel really good about my knowlegde of the english language now

[gigatime]

This kind of just went on to something so out of topic it's not even funny.

[Mister Sympa]

If the topic of a depression thread wanders and makes us laugh, I think that we've done well for ourselves. I, for one, feel loads better.

[Rejected]

^ this isn't a cartoon, if you wanna laugh watch a youtube video.

[Mister Sympa]

Hacker, what? I'm so confused.

[Calvary]

I think he's saying this thread isn't meant for laughing at?

 

In which case, Hacker, where do you get off telling other people what to do eh?

[Happymaker]

omg this is just what i need right now...

yesterday and today where pretty much my worst days ever. I left my record for this semester at boarding school because I wanted to avoid my parents getting angry... maybe not the best idea. They got really angry and after I told them that my abitur probably won't be the best they told me a lot of things... that I am dumb and they would do better without me, that I'll go straight into having no job with grades like that, that I better should go back to class eleven, that they just can't get how I turned out like this, lazy and silly etc.

I haven't cried in front of them because I didn't want to give them an opportunity to say "hell, tears won't help you now but of course that's all you are able to do" but later I had a "breakdown", luckily my brother was there for me. 

Today he was driving us somewhere and he got really loud and again called us losers and that he hated us etc. Then he threatened us, that he would love to beat us now and that we were lucky that he was driving right now. He has beaten both my brother and me in our childhood, but today was really scary. 

 

So, I don't know my real problem,it's just nice to write it down, so that everything is out of my head for the moment... but I don't know what I can do about the beating (or hitting, I don't know) thing, because I'm already the same - when my friends annoy me really hard, I beat them, because I don't know another way to show them that the line was crossed.

[Affray]

omg this is just what i need right now...

yesterday and today where pretty much my worst days ever. I left my record for this semester at boarding school because I wanted to avoid my parents getting angry... maybe not the best idea. They got really angry and after I told them that my abitur probably won't be the best they told me a lot of things... that I am dumb and they would do better without me, that I'll go straight into having no job with grades like that, that I better should go back to class eleven, that they just can't get how I turned out like this, lazy and silly etc.

I haven't cried in front of them because I didn't want to give them an opportunity to say "hell, tears won't help you now but of course that's all you are able to do" but later I had a "breakdown", luckily my brother was there for me. 

Today he was driving us somewhere and he got really loud and again called us losers and that he hated us etc. Then he threatened us, that he would love to beat us now and that we were lucky that he was driving right now. He has beaten both my brother and me in our childhood, but today was really scary. 

 

So, I don't know my real problem,it's just nice to write it down, so that everything is out of my head for the moment... but I don't know what I can do about the beating (or hitting, I don't know) thing, because I'm already the same - when my friends annoy me really hard, I beat them, because I don't know another way to show them that the line was crossed.

I don't know what you can do about being physically harmed, aggression from you would only breed more aggression, but cowing over will only send the message that it is okay to do. As for the beating you say you hand out to your friends, I would stop that asap. I understand that actions taught are often actions learned, but ultimately you are the one making a decision. You already know you do it and why, so it is just a matter of taking control of your reflexes and stowing them away. Mastering your own body and mind is the first step toward mastering your life.

[Happymaker]

thank you for the fast answer affray and happy birthday by the way!

that friend-beating happened twice yet and I hope I will master my mind in that point finally... I'm really not proud of it 

so, for the moment, I'll try to avoid conflicts with my parents... and yeah, maybe I'll do a little bit more for school it's just really boring these days and then I'm doing nothing for school -----> grades drop. 

wow, I should really learn to master my mind o.O 

[fae]

thank you for the fast answer affray and happy birthday by the way!
that friend-beating happened twice yet and I hope I will master my mind in that point finally... I'm really not proud of it 
so, for the moment, I'll try to avoid conflicts with my parents... and yeah, maybe I'll do a little bit more for school it's just really boring these days and then I'm doing nothing for school -----> grades drop. 
wow, I should really learn to master my mind o.O 

For me it helped alot to learn for exams with other people... i mean i'm not very good with people but i still learn a lot more when i talk about the material...

[Mister Sympa]

omg this is just what i need right now...
yesterday and today where pretty much my worst days ever. I left my record for this semester at boarding school because I wanted to avoid my parents getting angry... maybe not the best idea. They got really angry and after I told them that my abitur probably won't be the best they told me a lot of things... that I am dumb and they would do better without me, that I'll go straight into having no job with grades like that, that I better should go back to class eleven, that they just can't get how I turned out like this, lazy and silly etc.
I haven't cried in front of them because I didn't want to give them an opportunity to say "hell, tears won't help you now but of course that's all you are able to do" but later I had a "breakdown", luckily my brother was there for me. 
Today he was driving us somewhere and he got really loud and again called us losers and that he hated us etc. Then he threatened us, that he would love to beat us now and that we were lucky that he was driving right now. He has beaten both my brother and me in our childhood, but today was really scary. 
 
So, I don't know my real problem,it's just nice to write it down, so that everything is out of my head for the moment... but I don't know what I can do about the beating (or hitting, I don't know) thing, because I'm already the same - when my friends annoy me really hard, I beat them, because I don't know another way to show them that the line was crossed.

 

Holy fuck, are you okay?

That is unspeakably horrible. I'm so sorry.

[Happymaker]

that's so nice, mr sympa

yeah, I'm okay, haven't called my parents this week until one hour ago but all is well! I just hope it stays this way for some time now. I'm so glad that I live in boarding school during the week as this gives both sides time to calm down a bit

[Calvary]

Geez, all I can say is your parents are the fucking problem, not you. Poor chap, just remember though, violence is not an option for solving any problem. If you see how unhappy the mere possibility of being hit makes you, remember that feeling when you are considering attacking someone else, ask yourself: "what gives me the right to attack any other being?"

[bookfloss]

...violence is not an option for solving any problem...

 

 "Violence, naked force, has settled more issues in history that has any other factor, and the contrary opinion is wishful thinking at its worst."

Robert Heinlein

[Calvary]

 "Violence, naked force, has settled more issues in history that has any other factor, and the contrary opinion is wishful thinking at its worst."

Robert Heinlein

 

 

Err, example?