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[The Robstar]

HELLO FELLOW DORKS!!!!!!

 

So today my friend (who is 27 years old) finally got himself a girlfriend. Man oh man am I so proud of him!!!!

 

Prior to last weekend he hadn't even kissed a girl let alone been on a date....

 

For years he had been the brunt of all virgin jokes being nearly 30 we all thought he would be the 40 year old virgin..... not anymore!!!!!!

 

He wasn't religious or anything, he simply told me that he hadn't met the "right" person....

 

He met a girl at a party last w.e, got talking then "BOOM" it happened....

 

NOW.... My question for my fellow nerd forumers is...

 

Who hasn't had a girlfriend or boyfriend before???

 

Be honest and I promise I won't ridicule you or give you a hard time....

 

IF you have/had a partner...

 

How old we're you when you first got together???

[The Robstar]

Ok I'll get the ball rolling....

 

I was 20 when I first kissed a girl

 

A week before I turned 20 I got my first REAL girlfriend... and "celebrated on my bday) lol

 

To date I've only kissed 3 girls, two of which became my g.f....

 

There ya go....

[Calvary]

Why would you ridicule someone for that any way? That seems a rather mundane reason to take the piss.

 

I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, I'm certainly not going to rush to spend my life with someone if they aren't right for me. I did ask a girl once but apparently I was reading her signs wrong. My bad! 

 

Right now I'm in a intimate not-relationship-but-very-close thingie with someone, we're neither a fan of long distance relationships so we're holding off referring to it as that, although it's something that might happen in the future if we find ourselves single in a few years.

[The Robstar]

Why would you ridicule someone for that any way? That seems a rather mundane reason to take the piss.

 

I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, I'm certainly not going to rush to spend my life with someone if they aren't right for me. I did ask a girl once but apparently I was reading her signs wrong. My bad! 

 

Right now I'm in a intimate not-relationship-but-very-close thingie with someone, we're neither a fan of long distance relationships so we're holding off referring to it as that, although it's something that might happen in the future if we find ourselves single in a few years.

 

Just trying to get people comfortable by assuring them I'll take what they say seriously.  

[The Robstar]

Why would you ridicule someone for that any way? That seems a rather mundane reason to take the piss.

 

I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, I'm certainly not going to rush to spend my life with someone if they aren't right for me. I did ask a girl once but apparently I was reading her signs wrong. My bad! 

 

Right now I'm in a intimate not-relationship-but-very-close thingie with someone, we're neither a fan of long distance relationships so we're holding off referring to it as that, although it's something that might happen in the future if we find ourselves single in a few years.

 

 

Very interesting though, I've never been a casual kind of guy.

 

I've tried it but I can tell you it didn't work. I became jealous and possessive...

 

It just gets too complicated... well for me anyway :S

[Calvary]

Well I'm not that fussed, I mean, I've had chances for relationships before but I've not wanted to take them - predominantly because the person was already in a relationship and sleeping with that person felt wrong to me. Certainly I'd be distraught if I found out it had been happening to me. In that vein, I suppose it suggests I'm happy to wait.

 

There's no point in trying to do anything serious with this person because there are so many factors that make this relationship anything but conventional.

[The Robstar]

Someone once told me

 

'Save your heart for someone who actually deserves it"

 

I think I know what they meant, but I have yet to put it into play.

 

I hope you find what you are looking for...

 

All I say is "do whatever makes you happy" Just don't get hurt...

 

That is all I have to say.

[Calvary]

Heh, if something doesn't make me happy, I won't do it. I'm a hedonist by nature. Right now, this person makes me happy, may as well leave things as they are until we know whether or not there's any point in moving things along. Besides, more important things to think about haha!

[The Robstar]

I think that's my problem, I don't "test" the car before I drive it. I get carried away and just jump into the car and drive off into the sunset.... then roll the vehicle and wonder why I'm so fucked up all the time lol.

[The Robstar]

My first girlfriend told me right after she dumped me... (I was really upset by the break up)

 

"You should never feel that you NEED to have a girlfriend"

 

I guess those words carried on in my mind after all these years :S

[Affray]

I started dating girls when I was about 14, accumulated five or six over the next few years and ended up with the girl I am engaged to by the time I was 18.

Now I am 25 and still with her, so thats cool.

[Fox The Cat]

I started dating girls when I was about 14, accumulated five or six over the next few years and ended up with the girl I am engaged to by the time I was 18.

Now I am 25 and still with her, so thats cool.

 

I want that to be my story...

[Mister Sympa]

I "dated" a few people in school and such, and then I met my man when I was 19, and I'm 26 now, so, yeah. We're very strong.

[Affray]

I want that to be my story...

Basically I made a decision in grade nine to stop being the shy guy and become the clever goofball.

Apparently it worked out for me.

[CyberTetsuo]

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[Champion of Cyrodiil]

im a man whore. but my current relationship is just past the 3 year mark. so thats good.

[Affray]

im a man whore. but my current relationship is just past the 3 year mark. so thats good.

Whores have hearts too.

 

 

I "dated" a few people in school and such, and then I met my man when I was 19, and I'm 26 now, so, yeah. We're very strong.

Hey, you are like the dude on dude version of my story.

Neat.

[The Robstar]

well im 24 going very dangerously toward the "40 year old virgin" path. Its probably a combo of my awkwardness and psychosis that keeps me single,but ive never been in a serious relationship. the only ones i have ever sort of been in were the help-me-with-this project/my homework-and-ill-be-really-nice-to you-and not completely ignore you type thing...which doesnt count. Recently,a man decided to stop being gay (not sure how that works lol) and IMMEDIATELY got the girl i was trying to get for some time...yea

 

but that wouldve been a woe is me complaint before, but the poor quality of my social encounters let alone any romantic one, has led me to desire seclusion anyway, so im just giving input

 

I know how you feel. Sometimes I'm real awkward around people. Really depends on my mood. Like when people try to talk to me I just have nothing to say and freeze up. But I really don't have a problem talking to teenagers for some reason. :S Maybe because i'm a kid at heart (I just turned 25) But 24 is still pretty young dude. You got your whole life ahead of you. I've never had a problem attracting girls in my 20's but once they really get to know me they realize how much of a dork I really am. lol

 

My biggest advice to you is don't try bro. It will eventually happen. The girls I have hooked up with weren't who I initially planned on going out with. They started off as friends, then it just happened. Good things take time and I'm sure you will find your significant other

 

More power to you kuz!!!!

I "dated" a few people in school and such, and then I met my man when I was 19, and I'm 26 now, so, yeah. We're very strong.

Funny. I was such a weirdo at school. Girls never gave me a second glance. I was a late developer therefore my voice was high, I had no facial hair and I was short as hell. It's not until I hit puberty at the age of 18 LOLOL that I started to man up. I grew taller, I put on some meat on my bones and I started not giving a shit about what people thought of me.

[Krankykoala]

You people with your lovey dovey my relationship worked bit make me sad haha. I recently had someone help me realize that I really want to try for that again. For the last several years  I have only had physical relationships with women who wanted to get close to me. 

 

>.> Ok. I First kissed a girl when I was 14, first dated one when I was 16. 

 

Oh, and give your buddy a high five rob.

[The Robstar]

You people with your lovey dovey my relationship worked bit make me sad haha. I recently had someone help me realize that I really want to try for that again. For the last several years  I have only had physical relationships with women who wanted to get close to me. 

 

>.> Ok. I First kissed a girl when I was 14, first dated one when I was 16. 

 

Oh, and give your buddy a high five rob.

Relationships can be the most rewarding thing ever, but it can also be one of the biggest heartbreaking experiences ever!!! It's real nice having someone to hold and listen to you when you are feeling down. I'm a bit of a manly man but i also like snuggling (Don't tell anyone hehehe)

 

I wish you all the best on your quest for eternal happiness. Give it a go, you deserve to be happy

 

Haha yeah, I gave my bro a nice man-hug. I've never been so proud of him. *tears*