EDITED OUT OF FEAR...
No, it has nothing to do with language.
I guess it was just a weird rant on my part because of recently upsetting someone without realizing how upset I make people.
I always say the wrong thing. As proven by the responses in this post. I'm not clear and I'm usually awkward. I know know all nerds are outcasts and awkward. Some of us are.
I saw some posts by Nerdgirl on here too. I saw how tense things got. I never spoke to her or replied to any of her threads, but the tension it created also made me feel that perhaps without a full picture of who we all are, there are going to be these moments of tension.
I really don't like upsetting people. I guess that's basically it.