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[Elfie]

I agree that maturity counts, but life experience will always win for me. 17 most likely means they are still under someone es legal control. They are seen as a child by the law.. their brains aren't mature enough to be held responsible for criminal actions! Just stay away. They are t even finish with puberty!!!

[idk]

their brains aren't mature enough to be held responsible for criminal actions!

 

 

Tell that to the kids who wind up on the sex offender registry for sending their boyfriends/girlfriends naughty pictures.

[Elfie]

I agree that is shity, but it's counted as child pornography. I legit think it sucks for them.

[Elfie]

I'm not saying they are incapable of taking responsibility, I'm saying there are cases where teens are making very bad choices and or desicions and being left with a lesser sentence

[Elfie]

The law says these people are too young to be trusted to make good dedicions, go to school on their own, drink, buy cigarettes.. that's what I'm saying. They are legally kids. Leave them be and either wait or find someone else

[idk]

on an unrelated topic my whole everything hurts

[Elfie]

That sucks! I'm like stuck in a "I don't want to do this crap" phase. It needs to end, I have shit I have to do

[Calvary]

I think I'm gonna be literally homeless next month lol.

[Elfie]

Wha? What's wrong?

[Calvary]

My missus is out of work and I can't afford the rent.

[Elfie]

Oh man!! I'm so sorry to hear that.

[Affray]

on an unrelated topic my whole everything hurts

Flu?

I went through that for two fucking weeks straight and capped it off with those seizures I mentioned.

Hopefully your experience is more on the pukay achy side.

 

 

I think I'm gonna be literally homeless next month lol.

Shitty deal man.

If we weren't on different continents I would offer to put you up for a bit.

Anyone's parents an option?

Not exactly glamourous, but better than the streets.

[idk]

Nope no flu just aches.

[Photography Raptor]

The shitty part about all this is, I'm in the same social circles as he. We have the same friends. As far as I know they are in the dark and out of respect for my gf and his 'wife' I'm keeping my mouth shut. Also the fact he works at the same factory as me. So I have to see him here too. But all I can think about is...

Going downstairs and saying things like "so, bro, is her parents going to let her stay out past curfew? Make sure she brings ID to go see rated r movies bro." and piss him the fuck off.

He deserves it IMO.

[idk]

Yeah honestly I too would be giving him grief over that. Argh fuck off body stop feeling old.

[Elfie]

I'm a shit talker, and I'd have a hard time not throwing shade. Good luck and remember karma. Just because you are the one cheating doesn't mean you can't also do wrong in this situation. Never know what's a test or what's balanced pay back

[Mister Sympa]

Gol, good luck! I know her mom's ...not the coolest, but where are you guys right now? Her country or yours?

[Calvary]

Which country is hers, Sympa? I know the north is grim and full over horror but it's still England. <3

[Elfie]

I hate that my anxiety wakes me up at night. Obviuously it's because A. I'm worrying too much or B. Not dealing with what's wrong enough. Then because I'm not getting enough sleep I worry more. Stress stress stress stress stress stress

[Affray]

I hate that my anxiety wakes me up at night. Obviuously it's because A. I'm worrying too much or B. Not dealing with what's wrong enough. Then because I'm not getting enough sleep I worry more. Stress stress stress stress stress stress

My wife deal with pretty much the same bullshit.

She has always had anxiety issues when dealing with most life issues, but over the last little while she only sleeps a few hours per night because of it.

She either wakes up because she falls asleep stressing about everything, or the stress causes some pretty horrible stomach stuff and actual physical pain keeps her from sleeping. I wish I had an easy fix for you Elf, but I haven't gotten to the point with my wife where we have found any solid remedies. All I can think of is going all She-Hulk on life and getting the things you are stressing about taken care of so that they aren't on your plate anymore. Not always possible, but I'm willing to bet there are a few smaller stresses that you could handle without too much trouble. Every straw you take off the camel's back is one step further from quadriplegia right? I don't really like meds, but maybe looking in to anxiety meds might help?