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#141 Photography Raptor

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Posted 06 January 2017 - 04:54 PM

I entertained her with snap chats of leather.

Yes, it's very exciting.

#142 Mister Sympa

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Posted 10 January 2017 - 03:27 PM

i just feel bored because there is nothing to do. but i quit yesterday. feeling better now (btw this is not my real job. i took 3 months off to go traveling and there i got a job in exchange for free lodging). going to move on next week.

HOORAY!!!!

I hope only for wonderful things in the future!


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Posted 17 January 2017 - 11:18 PM

Just learned yesterday that friends of mine are getting a divorce.

To put a long story short:

Friend unhappy with marriage. Instead of telling anyone he starts to frequent dating sites. Meets girls on there - falls in love.

She lives in Georgia. He in Minnesota. She is ...17 and he is 29. He confessed all this to wife over the weekend and was planning on using a Dr. Who convention in May? As a cover to go meet up with her.

This is the same guy who berates people and calls them stupid for their actions or purchases. He gave me so much shit when I bought my truck and wouldn't talk to me for like a week. He just won a gold medal by his own standard.

My gf is best friends with his wife we use to do couples stuff all the time. Not anymore.

Man I just keep losing friends because I don't think I'll be able to stand the sight of him for very long. I give him kudos for coming clean but seriously

What a fucking cunt.

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Posted 17 January 2017 - 11:28 PM

Man fuck at least wait until the divorce is finalized before dating, that's so unbelievably disrespectful. I may be biased from my own dating experiences though.

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Posted 17 January 2017 - 11:32 PM

I lost all respect for him. I hope he moves and gets dumped two weeks after.

GO GIVE YOUR NEW GF A RIDE TO SCHOOL BRO.

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 08:05 AM

I don't stay friends with people I don't have respect for. Just bottom line human respect. What the hell!! Yes ok so I've been cheated on, but dating, engaged, married, those are people you are saying are the best people, the ones you trust, your teammate.. what sense does that make to treat them that way. Fuck him (no offense but fuck him)


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:06 AM

I have like, six friends total for that reason. 


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:12 AM

Right?! You guys are my mob of friends haha I have a best friend, and a couple regular friends, and then, my virtual buddies, I love this forum. Sympa you are definitely a favorite of mine


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#149 Affray

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:15 AM

It would be a very different story if he told his wife he didn't want to be married anymore and started that process, then maybe started looking before papers were signed/processed.

But going and finding women on dating sites and making sure you have a backup/safe bet to fall back on after the marriage is done is a shifty, greasy way to go about it.

I am willing to bet good money that he shacks up with this 17 year old for a bit then realises that 17 year old girls tend to be shitheads, especially if he found her on a dating site. Finding a 17 year old "true love" on a dating site should have been the biggest red flag for anyone with half a brain, but I'm not getting a smart man vibe from this fella.


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#150 Elfie

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:17 AM

Most 17 year olds ARENT wife/husband material.


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:21 AM

Yeah but 17 is still like 4 years shy of my lowest limit so that doesn't really help.


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#152 Elfie

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:24 AM

I messed up, I meant aren't! Hahaha experience means a lot in life


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#153 Mister Sympa

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 09:29 AM

Aww, cheers, Elfie!

 

And Affray, that was EXACTLY what I was thinking.


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 10:31 AM

No you're right to say that. Fuck him. She didn't deserve that. If he's unhappy he should have said something.

People change and that's a known fact. There's plenty of divorce out there but not all of it is ugly, nor has to be. It's just the principle of the matter... you think you know someone then one day they sit you down on a couch and it's "I'm seeing someone else. I want a divorce."

And all you can probably think is...

I'm sorry, did I burn your toast too much?
Did I not fold your laundry neatly enough?
Do I not do everything in the bedroom you asked?
Have I not taken care of you when you're sick?
Have I not treated your entire family like they ARE my own?
Have I not given seven years of my life for you?

Where do you get off treating me this way? Like who the fuck do you think you are?

Things like this can attack a persons self-worth. It's damaging. That's why we all need friends to stand by us. Virtual or not. Lucky for her she has a few. Him, well, not so much anymore.

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 10:34 AM

Even being cheated on by a short term girlfriend can be crippling for a persons self esteem. I see so many people rationalize it and defend doing it too, it's disturbing.


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 10:41 AM

I think (rationalizing it) people are afraid to hurt people to their face (saying they are no longer interested) but doing it hidden is easy, and until caught "ok". I think it's awful, in short term and long term, but to give YEARS of yourself thinking this is how marriage is, good and bad, and then to have the carpet ripped from under you, well it's life changing. My empathy goes out to her. Not because I assume she's a good person, but because it's hard to count on someone and realize they give no fucks for you. None, they didn't count on you, gave you 0 respect in the fact of the relationship not working, just said fuck you, figure it out.


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#157 Elfie

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Posted 18 January 2017 - 10:42 AM

I may be bitter


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Posted 18 January 2017 - 10:45 AM

I may be bitter

Being bitter doesn't make you wrong.


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Posted 19 January 2017 - 06:53 AM

If a friend of mine was dating a 17 year old I'd duff them up around the ears. I don't care if it's legal here, a 17 year old is still basically a kid. If you're a fucking loser who can't get with people your own age and chase children, I got no time or respect for you.

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Posted 19 January 2017 - 09:13 AM

If a friend of mine was dating a 17 year old I'd duff them up around the ears. I don't care if it's legal here, a 17 year old is still basically a kid. If you're a fucking loser who can't get with people your own age and chase children, I got no time or respect for you.

I probably wouldn't be that harsh immediately based on age alone 100% of the time.

If you are in your 20's somewhere and happen to click with some 17 year old who isn't a complete shithead then so be it.

People can make their own choices and lead their own lives.

Nine times out of ten it is definitely not a good idea, but there are always exceptions to the rule.

When my sister was 17 she was more mature and had a way more solid life plan than I do even now.

It really is a circumstantial thing that changes depending on the people.

I know thirty somethings who have no business being in relationships with anyone ever.


It is perfectly acceptable to fear and admire a being you could not possibly understand.