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#1601 Mister Sympa

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Posted 01 November 2017 - 01:27 PM

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#1602 Cotton Candy Hot Tub

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Posted 01 November 2017 - 04:58 PM

I don't know the entire situation, but affection is definitely one of the most important parts of a relationship. You're not alone. I've had this problem plenty of times myself.

#1603 Affray

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Posted 01 November 2017 - 06:55 PM

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Shit.

I wish I had more experience in the matter so I could give you something, anything that could point you in the right direction.


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#1604 Mister Sympa

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Posted 02 November 2017 - 06:21 AM

Your support helped, mate. I appreciate it. <3


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#1605 The Robstar

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Posted 20 April 2018 - 04:58 AM

Ok guys. I need some advice.

 

I'm feeling a bit down because I keep unintentionally breaking girls hearts. (No. Not in a stud-ly way either)

 

Examples.

 

- The DP I have on here is the same as my facebook and a girl I liked suddenly unfriended me as soon as I uploaded it. (Well fuck. My bad) The girl in the pic was my mandarin teacher. Not my lover girl.....

 

- Another girl hates me now because I had to leave my old job, she feels I abandoned her. The job never renewed my contract so that wasn't my bad.
 

- My friends 13 yo stepdaughter became infatuated with me, but I kept my distance. All of a sudden she fucking haaaaaaaattttttttteeeeeeeeessssssss me. This one I can sort of understand because I rebuffed her advances.

 

- Last one is my coworker at my new job. We got on like a blast earlier in the year. All of a sudden she ignores me. Walks right past me without acknowledgement. This one fucked me up the most because I actually don't know what I did....... hence the post.....

 

The girl from my old job I'm probably heartbroken by the most. I actually really liked her but never told her. I can't tell her why I left because she's blocked me on everything. :( This one I'm been depressed about since December. What makes matters worse is that I moved to a new city for my new job. :( I don't know how long it's going to take before I get over her.

 

I admit that I'm still my awkward self, especially around girls I like. I can't read girls body language for shit. 

 

I hate breaking hearts. I've had a broken heart and I never wish it upon anybody.

 

What am I doing wrong? C'mon Elf, or any of the girls on here.

 

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

 

Sorry for the long bloated post. But I don't have anyone to talk to anymore. I dare not tell even my own brother that I'm feeling like shit.


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#1606 Mister Sympa

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Posted 20 April 2018 - 11:24 AM

>1, that was a misunderstanding that could have been avoided had a simple question been asked. wtf.

>2, that was out of your control. wtf.

>3, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BRO

>4, TALK to this bitch. One-on-one. Be like, "Yo, I'm REALLY SORRY if I said something stupid, but yo, I really like you. Please give me a chance to fix it. Also, are you okay?"

 

Yeah, not your fault, man. <3


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Posted 20 April 2018 - 06:13 PM

>1, that was a misunderstanding that could have been avoided had a simple question been asked. wtf.

>2, that was out of your control. wtf.

>3, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BRO

>4, TALK to this bitch. One-on-one. Be like, "Yo, I'm REALLY SORRY if I said something stupid, but yo, I really like you. Please give me a chance to fix it. Also, are you okay?"

 

Yeah, not your fault, man. <3

 

All the above.  Spot on.



#1608 The Robstar

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Posted 21 April 2018 - 06:16 AM

>1, that was a misunderstanding that could have been avoided had a simple question been asked. wtf.

>2, that was out of your control. wtf.

>3, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BRO

>4, TALK to this bitch. One-on-one. Be like, "Yo, I'm REALLY SORRY if I said something stupid, but yo, I really like you. Please give me a chance to fix it. Also, are you okay?"

 

Yeah, not your fault, man. <3

Ah man. Thank you so much. :) 

 

I thought it was my awkward teen self reemerging again. 

 

The only one I can fix is my current coworker. I'll talk with her once the school holidays are over.

 

I'm actually really grateful for the advice bud. Wisdom and life experience are two things I lack. 


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#1609 Elfie

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Posted 21 April 2018 - 04:10 PM

I’m sorry you’re down but just know they are all being crazy haha
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#1610 Australopithecus afarensis

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Posted 21 April 2018 - 05:52 PM

Your life sounds like a lot of that bad tv trope where the entire problem could have been avoided by a simple question being asked and its not for the purpose of building drama to further the storyline. 


First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Socialist.

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Trade Unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me-- and there was no one left to speak for me.


#1611 The Robstar

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Posted 23 April 2018 - 05:07 AM

Your life sounds like a lot of that bad tv trope where the entire problem could have been avoided by a simple question being asked and its not for the purpose of building drama to further the storyline. 

Too true. I thought I was a drama magnet. I guess communication isn't my strong suit. 


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#1612 Mister Sympa

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Posted 23 April 2018 - 12:06 PM

Your life sounds like a lot of that bad tv trope where the entire problem could have been avoided by a simple question being asked and its not for the purpose of building drama to further the storyline. 

Right? That's some sitcom shit. And not in a good way.


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