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#1541 Bestmand902

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Posted 16 March 2017 - 08:29 PM

I can't remember if I've said this before, but, sometimes, I have this dread that, should I gain fame or notoriety, people will judge me on how I used to act (Which I regret) instead of how I am now.


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#1542 The Robstar

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Posted 22 March 2017 - 01:23 AM

Ok I feel that I'm a bit of a grumpy prude on this one but here goes....

 

I work alongside this new chick, let's call her RAMONA. She's studying at the local TECH training to become a teacher and does practicum with us.

 

19 - 20 years of age. She's a groovy chick to talk to about video games. But jesus christ...... She won't shut the fuck up about her BF EVERYTIME!!!.

 

I've never indicated any romantic gestures nor flirted with her, but FFS she mentions him every single time we talk.

 

"Haha that kid is pretty funny, kinda reminds me of my BF........" and "oh I was watching Iron Fist, my BF, he's a bit of a martial artist...." 

 

Maybe I'm being a hater because she's happy LOL, I normally just zone out and pretend that I have to tend to a kid or something. lol

 

What do you guys think? Am I just being a dick or wha????

 

When I have GF's I barely ever mention them unless someone asks if I have a partner and/or married.

 

I generally really hate talking about people that I've never met. Like a friend of a friend or something. 


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#1543 idk

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Posted 22 March 2017 - 06:51 AM

I almost want to say she has a crush on you and she keeps bringing him up more as a reminder to herself more than as a point to drive you off. Seems particularly likely since you say you haven't been flirty at all.

 

Or she just really really likes him. Or he doesn't exist and she's just talking about having a boyfriend so nobody at work will hit on her. It's hard to say without actually knowing her.


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#1544 Mister Sympa

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Posted 22 March 2017 - 07:04 AM

Rob-

She's at that age and stage of her relationship. I know it's obnoxious, but I'm 99% certain that I was the same way at that point. Ya grow out of it.


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#1545 Jalapeno Business

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Posted 22 March 2017 - 07:42 PM

    This lack of energy is making me feel tired and worthless all the time.
I don't know why everyone else wants to live their life because I certainly don't want to live mine anymore. Sometimes I feel like everyone who actually cares about me just pretends to and that everyone actually wishes I were dead. Especially the women I talk to. All of my so-called friends on Facebook are married with kids or in a successful relationship and I haven't ever had a serious girlfriend.

Everything bad that people have said about me is true. I also feel like I have never done anything productive in my entire life.
Why do I even have a life?
What's the point?

I think I'll just end it once and for all sometime in the next week. Don't expect to see me here anymore. I won't even exist anymore. Literally.

Sorry for interrupting, Rob.



#1546 Mister Sympa

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Posted 23 March 2017 - 10:19 AM

Watch Lazy Town.

 

You cannot be depressed and watch that show.


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#1547 Mister Sympa

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Posted 23 March 2017 - 01:34 PM

Here is some honest depression advice:

Go buy yourself some nice hand soap. Seriously. Soap that smells REALLY good to you.

When you're feeling low, go wash your hands slowly. Really take your time. Play with the water.

 

I promise it'll help.


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#1548 Affray

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Posted 23 March 2017 - 02:08 PM

    This lack of energy is making me feel tired and worthless all the time.
I don't know why everyone else wants to live their life because I certainly don't want to live mine anymore. Sometimes I feel like everyone who actually cares about me just pretends to and that everyone actually wishes I were dead. Especially the women I talk to. All of my so-called friends on Facebook are married with kids or in a successful relationship and I haven't ever had a serious girlfriend.

Everything bad that people have said about me is true. I also feel like I have never done anything productive in my entire life.
Why do I even have a life?
What's the point?

I think I'll just end it once and for all sometime in the next week. Don't expect to see me here anymore. I won't even exist anymore. Literally.

Sorry for interrupting, Rob.

At some point nearly everyone goes through a line of thinking like this.

It is very important for you to understand that a vast majority of the things about yourself that you judge negatively barely cross the minds of most other people.

They have their own shit to worry about and are definitely not critiquing your every move like you think they are.

You just do you and everyone else can either accept that or fuck off, their opinions shouldn't be what's important in your life.

 

I consider myself a pretty happy guy and even I've seriously wondered what the point of anything I do is.

Existential crises are sort of a staple of being human dude, we all have our moments of self doubt and inner reflection.

You just can't let the sad guy take the reins when it comes to figuring out your life.

If you are truly at the point where you don't see a point in continuing then there is a good chance that you are at a turning point.

If everything is a wash and you aren't happy with your life then you have nothing to lose by drastically changing it in to what you want it to be.

Figure out what you really, really want to do and put the steps in motion to make it happen.

Move to another country if the one you're in isn't doing anything for you, maybe you will find people who you click with and suddenly the world seems less shitty.

There are just so many things that you can do to offset the very large weight of the world and all you have to do is say fuck it and get your ass out there making it happen. What could you possibly have to lose?


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#1549 The Robstar

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Posted 24 March 2017 - 01:07 AM

I almost want to say she has a crush on you and she keeps bringing him up more as a reminder to herself more than as a point to drive you off. Seems particularly likely since you say you haven't been flirty at all.

 

Or she just really really likes him. Or he doesn't exist and she's just talking about having a boyfriend so nobody at work will hit on her. It's hard to say without actually knowing her.

Maybe. I'm not quite sure. I don't really understand the early 20'uns nowadays. I think she's actually trying really hard to engage in conversation with me so that she's not a loner, see I'm very charismatic at school, I guess she's drawn to that, maybe not sexual attraction, perhaps work colleague admiration?  

Rob-

She's at that age and stage of her relationship. I know it's obnoxious, but I'm 99% certain that I was the same way at that point. Ya grow out of it.

I thought that too. First real relationship she's had. 1st time she gets to ride the "D" anytime she pleases. She's in true bliss...... up until someone breaks her heart for the 1st time. THEN she will join the rest of us in the bitter/loathing corner. LOLOL


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Posted 24 March 2017 - 01:08 AM


Sorry for interrupting, Rob.

YOU WILL PAY FOR YOUR SINS WITH YOUR LIFE HEATHEN!!!!!!!

 

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Posted 24 March 2017 - 02:34 AM

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Posted 24 March 2017 - 02:51 AM

Infatuation

Ew yucky :P


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#1553 Mister Sympa

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Posted 24 March 2017 - 07:31 AM

YOU WILL PAY FOR YOUR SINS WITH YOUR LIFE HEATHEN!!!!!!!

 

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I miss you, Rob.


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#1554 Elfieness

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Posted 24 March 2017 - 01:26 PM

I miss you, Rob.


Yes me too!!
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