On the topic of depression, I randomly remembered something helped me when some ridiculous crap happened to me, and I mean fucking ridiculous.
It was Eddie Izzard, actually.
I imagined myself onstage, much like him, and telling the story to an audience who found it as ridiculous as I did. If I could get them to laugh with me, it hurt less.
It saved me when I was 16.
Sometimes taking a step back and laughing at the whole situation really helps.
Our local convention started today, and all is pretty good. I didn't get to dress up but that's fine, I needed the money. I'm anxious about some things though.
I joined the anime society's executive a while after my boyfriend did, thinking I go all the time anyway, I might as well contribute and help out. Only then my boyfriend had to drop out of university and had to unofficially leave the executive since you need to be a student, and now the other two execs are graduating, leaving me as both the president and the only executive member.
You need 3 official executive members to remain an official university society, and to receive funding every semester. We're going to lose that, and along with it the prizes and events, and the booth and two panels we do at this convention. I don't even have the time to plan and hold the regular showings anymore, I can't do this all myself. This society has been around since the 80s and it's probably going to die with me as the last name.
I mean as it is the need for an anime club isn't as great as it was in the 80s, why go out to watch shows when you can download them online? We get maybe 8 people on a good day compared to the 100 they used to get, so I guess everything must come to an end, but I feel like I'm just being handed a previously badly managed society that I'm sure I could fix if I had the time to put into it, but on top of both my engineering work and also becoming chair of the IEEE student branch at the university, I can't even consider it. I only meant to be exec by name because they had been looking for so long, I wanted to help, not take over.
In the spirit of the con, a lot of people are mentioning they might help but I'm not keeping my hopes up high. We all say things during a convention that we realize we can't do afterward. My boyfriend is trying all he can but without that funding... Blah.
I guess I'm not depressed about this so much that I'm somewhat frustrated I can't do much about it. Like Sympa said, laughing at it helps, its not my fault the society failed, its a mix of disinterest, earlier bad management, and members who love the group but not enough to save it.