I've been putting myself out there, posting, replying to topics but I feel like I'm not really wanted here. Tried this Forum out hoping I'd meeting new people and make friends but I'm simply not feeling it anymore... I think there's something wrong with me or something... I even have a hard time making friends with people in real life cause people think I'm weird. Feel like maybe I'm doomed....
I feel like I don't belong on here...
#1
Posted 27 January 2014 - 10:08 AM
#2
Posted 27 January 2014 - 10:19 AM
Just don't sweat it. Everyone here is friendly, no one want's you gone. Reply to things you're interested in at your leisure and don't worry about fitting in or being weird.
#3
Posted 27 January 2014 - 04:45 PM
Hey, come on. You are great. From what I've seen of your posts, you totally belong here. I think you know that too, or you wouldn't have have stuck around so long.
And I know what you mean about making friends in real life. I tend to be shy and not talk around people I don't know well and it makes others think I'm aloof and unapproachable, even if I'm not like that at all. It can be really disheartening but just remember you've got lots of friends here.
If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always available to pm, I check this site a couple times a day so you should get a swift reply.
#4
Posted 27 January 2014 - 05:26 PM
Yaah man, everyone here's fantastic. No one wants you gone so stick around, eh?
When in doubt on NF, just talk about...erm...raunchily coming onto other users? Works for 99% of people here.
Ask for my discord/Insta/Tumblr if you want.
#5
Posted 27 January 2014 - 05:51 PM
Sorry you don't feel appreciated, man. I'll try to be less ignore-y.
#6
Posted 27 January 2014 - 06:20 PM
...I feel like I'm not really wanted here ... I think there's something wrong with me... I even have a hard time making friends with people in real life cause people think I'm weird. Feel like maybe I'm doomed....
We are our own worst critics so hang in there. If you're on the internet & have a computer & might be weird, then this really is the place to be.
"Normal is what everyone else is and you're not." Malcolm McDowell
#7
Posted 27 January 2014 - 07:03 PM
Yaah man, everyone here's fantastic. No one wants you gone so stick around, eh?
When in doubt on NF, just talk about...erm...raunchily coming onto other users? Works for 99% of people here.
What's sad is this is an absolute truth. Just threaten rape and wear cat ears and you'll be fine.
And, Gol, what's with that name? If you had changed that pic I wouldn't have known it was you.
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#8
Posted 27 January 2014 - 09:48 PM
And, Gol, what's with that name? If you had changed that pic I wouldn't have known it was you.
On the main note, I wouldn't be too critical of yourself when it comes to social awkwardness.
Everyone has their strengths and their weaknesses.
Even if you stumble through social interactions, you are bound to stumble in to a few others who are equally as calamitous.
And that, is when best friends happen.
It is perfectly acceptable to fear and admire a being you could not possibly understand.
#9
Posted 27 January 2014 - 10:09 PM
Uh, I think I know the birthplace of Boris Shergin, Affray, but when I spell it, I don't use ancient ruins and upside down letters. I use English letters like Sesame Street taught me, just like the rest of the world should. Gawd!
But was he really just naming himself after the X-man? That's what I was curious about.
My first novel, Seeds of Magic- Barnes & Noble, Smashwords, Kobo, Sony Store
#10
Posted 27 January 2014 - 10:31 PM
But was he really just naming himself after the X-man? That's what I was curious about.
If he knows whats good for him he did.
It is perfectly acceptable to fear and admire a being you could not possibly understand.
#11
Posted 28 January 2014 - 04:27 AM
Uh, I think I know the birthplace of Boris Shergin, Affray, but when I spell it, I don't use ancient ruins and upside down letters. I use English letters like Sesame Street taught me, just like the rest of the world should. Gawd!
But was he really just naming himself after the X-man? That's what I was curious about.
Russian is different and different scares me, therefore I must hate it. XD
It's just a cool sounding place, so I was like...yep, I'm having that as my name now. It was either that or Xussar Iryston.
Ask for my discord/Insta/Tumblr if you want.
#12
Posted 28 January 2014 - 04:38 AM
What's sad is this is an absolute truth. Just threaten rape and wear cat ears and you'll be fine..
ALRIGHT WHO'S LEG DO I HAVE TO HUMP 2 GET SOME ATTENTION HERE?
THE HELL YOU READING FOOL???
#13
Posted 28 January 2014 - 04:49 AM
Let's talk about the porn industry.
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#14
Posted 28 January 2014 - 06:34 AM
Let's talk about the porn industry.
Isnt that mixing business with pleasure? Wait, what?
"Normal is what everyone else is and you're not." Malcolm McDowell
#15
Posted 28 January 2014 - 07:38 AM
Isnt that mixing business with pleasure? Wait, what?
They say you need to find a way to get payed for what you like.
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#16
Posted 28 January 2014 - 07:59 AM
Let's talk about the porn industry.
They say you need to find a way to get payed for what you like.
My old flat-mate's girlfriend used 2 work in 'the industry'
A lot of the time she would lose feeling down there and couldn't control her bladder.
She rarely had sex outside of work because it did nothing for her. No feeling = No stimulation.
But it might be a whole different experience for a dude...... lol depending on what they do......
As for me and my dream jobs?
ROB$TAR, THE BREAST INSPECTOR!!!!!!!
ROB$TAR, WWE CHAMPION!!!!!!
ROB$TAR, DRUG LORD!!!!!!!
ROB$TAR, THE PROFESSIONAL BUM!!!!!
^^ (At least 3 of these are being fulfilled as we speak..... lol)
THE HELL YOU READING FOOL???
#17
Posted 28 January 2014 - 09:01 AM
They say you need to find a way to get payed for what you like.
Now you're talkin'
I think A: We start a new thread on this note so HelloNerdySam doesn't get weirded out or
B: We keep going so HelloNerdySam gets a better idea of what weird can really be
For example:
Who wouldn't love getting paid to take photos like this?
"Normal is what everyone else is and you're not." Malcolm McDowell
#18
Posted 28 January 2014 - 03:09 PM
Just gonna put it out there that I was offered a job as a male escort. Wish I'd taken it now, much better pay and a lot more fun that working in a warehouse. Well any way I missed my chance now.
Ask for my discord/Insta/Tumblr if you want.
#19
Posted 29 January 2014 - 01:18 PM
Just wanted to thank everyone's replies to this thread. For awhile I felt as if I didn't belong here but I'll remain to stick around on here and continue to post and put myself out there. Lately I haven't been feeling the best either but I hope things up getting better for me.
#20
Posted 29 January 2014 - 01:24 PM
I came here to see encouragement. Instead found stuff about sex.