Your description just makes it sound like an easy way for a man to get the wife he wants, instead of whomever he would otherwise have an arranged marriage to.
I forcefully penetrated you, therefore, you must be subservient to me for the remainder of your life or be cast into hell.
"A woman dropped a stone and cracked his skull. Hurriedly he called to his armour bearer, 'Draw your sword and kill me, so that they can't say a woman killed me.' So his servant ran him through and he died." Oh religion, what are we going to do with you, you little rascal.
The bible has painted women to be the biggest antagonists of all time. It's easier to be made subservient if you're told by your father, brother, mother, leader and religious icons that you are evil and must listen to them to change your ways.
"Eve, you have now created the first act of evil and for that, all of your gender must pay"
'it just seems to have a lot of truth to it, because I don't believe that we just got here by one big bang.'
That's a very simplified way of looking at it. In fact, that's not the right way of looking at it, it's so simple it's wrong.
Actually.... It is kind of that simple
With all the theories behind how the big bang was initiated, and the inablilty for us to know what happened before it, it's easier for us to assume it just happened.
As to what I believe.
It's not simple.
I was born into a christian household and was a good little christian girl untill I got old enough and smart enough to realise the hypocrisy (around 10)
I started hating religion (this includes atheism, and face it athiests, as much as you don't want to, you are a religious faction now), but I studied it, because I was fascinated.
I like to call myself undefined.
I like to believe there are several deities out there, within a heirachy, battling out for the top position.
I believe in the "supernatural" and that oneday we'll understand it better than ever before
It's kind of like an amalgamation of reality, science, fantasy and science fiction all rolled into one with the understanding of energy and energy transfer being the centre focus.
This is my spirituality, I don't put faith in Science. Sience isn't faith, it is fact, I just incorperate it into my belief system.