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[MrSandman]

I just need some advice on what to do. Well my two oldest and best childhood friends (they are brothers), they have a sister, which never hung around before, but now shes kinda grown up and she has become extremely hot, and now she is becomming friends with us and hang around and stuff. Well anyway she just asked me if I wanna travel by train and go to a concert, and go out on pubs in a city kinda far from here . I'm just scared to say yes, because it would be kinda akward to go on a trip with just her? And if there is some fooling around which I think might happen. That could effect the whole best friends thing. Well what should I do?

[Champion of Cyrodiil]

Do what feels right.  

 

Just realize that dating a friend's sister/mom is going to add some pressure on your relationship with all parties involved.

 

It really comes down to two things.

 

1.) how you treat her.

2.) how comfortable your friends (her brother's) are with the idea of you giving the meat dagger to their sister.

 

In my experience, brothers and fathers are surprisingly receptive to the idea.  They want their sister to be happy, and if you make her happy, then that is enough for them.  Just remember to be respectful, don't discuss sex and relationships with your friends while dating their sister, as it is disrespectful in many cultures.  And if/when you break up, be honest, quick and decisive. Dont drag it out.

 

I would say, 'ease' into it.  Don't try to look down the road too far, as there are too many twists and turns to anticipate everything.  Just be yourself, and don't lie.  If your intentions are good, and your friends still have a problem with it, then its time to make a choice for one or the others.  Just remember, your friends aren't there for you near the end.  Only the one you choose to spend your life with will be.

[No-Danico]

Ahhh, classic problem. Childhood friends, naggy little sister, sister grows up, turns hawt. And then she's always sucking on a damn cherry lollipop every damn time you see her. Damn it, Christine, you know what you're doing.

 

Anyway, I had a similar situation pop up about two years ago. The friend was a girl, her little sister was about three years younger than us. Well, my buddy got married and moved off, and the sister and I hung out more in her absence. One thing led to another, we kissed, but she wouldn't go any further than that without me talking to her sister. So I called her the next day, she said she didn't care, so long as I didn't just use her and all that.

 

So that's my advice, talk to your buddies and be completely serious. See how they feel, it will be how they feel about you as much as her. Or, just go ahead and ask for permission later. 

[MrSandman]

Ahhh, classic problem. Childhood friends, naggy little sister, sister grows up, turns hawt. And then she's always sucking on a damn cherry lollipop every damn time you see her. Damn it, Christine, you know what you're doing.

 

Anyway, I had a similar situation pop up about two years ago. The friend was a girl, her little sister was about three years younger than us. Well, my buddy got married and moved off, and the sister and I hung out more in her absence. One thing led to another, we kissed, but she wouldn't go any further than that without me talking to her sister. So I called her the next day, she said she didn't care, so long as I didn't just use her and all that.

 

So that's my advice, talk to your buddies and be completely serious. See how they feel, it will be how they feel about you as much as her. Or, just go ahead and ask for permission later. 

Ye those godamn lollipops ! Well, one of the brothers don't ever care, but the other one would be strange. And I know thier parents and other siblings very well to. So It might be a bad idea, Hmm. I have to think it over

[Calvary]

Pound dem sweet sugar walls.

 

Just do what you like, could be a laugh and you could be looking into it way too much.

[MrSandman]

hmm yeah well she was just here at my house. She tagged along my friends and watched some soccer, And she sat down next to me in the couch. Asked me about the concert. Not sure about her intentions now. I just asked myself why must your best friend have a sister that is a blond, hot goddess.

[No-Danico]

Yeah, how often do I say to myself, "Geh, self, isn't it great that the slag-bitch could come over and watch hockey with me. Good thing she's not a hot European goddess, that would look terrible on my couch!" I would punch my inner self in the neck with my ring hand.

 

The exaggerated roll of my eyes is implied, dude. I hope she's interested, though.  

[Affray]

The best way to go about it is to not make it this big weird thing.

If you are in to this girl, it shouldn't matter who her relatives are.

And if her brothers are really and truly your best and oldest friends, they will understand that you are not some slimy prick who is just trying to nail their sister.

I agree that as long as your are respectful and not a douche about anything, all should be well.

[Benihime]

The best way to go about it is to not make it this big weird thing.
If you are in to this girl, it shouldn't matter who her relatives are.
And if her brothers are really and truly your best and oldest friends, they will understand that you are not some slimy prick who is just trying to nail their sister.
I agree that as long as your are respectful and not a douche about anything, all should be well.

Ditto.

[idk]

giving the meat dagger to their sister.

I died. 

[Calvary]

She sat next to you on the couch? Sounds like some srs bidnis.

[idk]

"She totally sat on the couch beside me. she was totally digging my vintage fedora and abstract atheism quotes. "

[Champion of Cyrodiil]

a girl sitting on the couch next to you is basically an invite to 3rd base.  Just make sure you go at her fast and aggressively. 

[Sethre]

a girl sitting on the couch next to you is basically an invite to 3rd base.  Just make sure you go at her fast and aggressively. 

How come I didnt know about this?! I could have been in soooo many girl's pants!

[Champion of Cyrodiil]

How come I didnt know about this?! I could have been in soooo many girl's pants!

it's not rape.  It's sex by surprise. 

[MrSandman]

well i have decided to just bang her and then not go any further, And not tell anyone! I would not say no to any bootycalls though.

[Calvary]

She sounds like she really wants the D.

[Bowsette]

I keep trying to post a serious response to this thread

 

I just can't

[Calvary]

Xiao, this is a serious thread. Either post about how blatantly this girl wants a good dicking or gtfo.

[MrSandman]

I keep trying to post a serious response to this thread

 

I just can't

well you just did