Well uh things happened that aren't overly important, but this kinda pushed me over the edge -
"Well I would have thought that it was a pretty clear indication that I don't want to talk to you. It's quite simple ~Silver_rose~ I don't want you as part of my life anymore. I will be pleasant and civil to you in public and that's it. I don't really want to block you on here as well so I ask you to take this in stride. Also I suggest you loose my phone number."
~area has been changed due to it having my real name~
This got sent to me on facebook after I found that this friend deleted me from skype and unfriended me on facebook.
No warning, it just happened
No him trying to talk it out, he just did it
No indication he was angry, or upset.
No him trying to resolve the situation
and the only reason why I even know he's upset is because I tried
I tried to resolve it by telling him we needed to talk.
I have known this person for 10 years.
We were so close I thought he was more a brother to me than my actual brother.
and he does this.
Sometimes people are just stupid morons.
It sucks, but such is life.
Here is a fun little story that is pretty in tune with yours.
I had this friend named Tom, we had been friends since we were small children.
The sort of friends that did everything together, had inside jokes that only we got and that was fine with us, the whole friend shebang.
Me and my family took him in because his family was shit, and so did several other friend's families.
He lived with us, we fed him, clothed him, family stuff.
No one cared because that is what you do.
We were brothers.
Then, a while ago, the two of us (plus two other friends) entered a golf tournament in which we rocked.
Part way through the tournament we had in incident which involved our two golf carts colliding and one of them breaking an axle.
It was an accident but the guy who owns the golf course is a douche.
At the end of they day he wanted a thousand dollars to cover the damages (way too much, but that is a rant for another day).
We agreed to each pay $250 to share the load and moved on with our lives.
Me and me friend Reid Paid $500 each because we were the ones driving and were going to get money from the other two (one of which was Tom) later.
A few months ago Tom sends me a text that said after the golf course incident we couldn't hang out anymore.
He felt he shouldn't have to pay anything for the cart repairs and that I was being an asshole.
He then proceeded to attack my morals, my ethics, my family, my religious beliefs, and everything else he could think of once he realized I wasn't flying off the handle at him.
This is a man who I grew up with, supported like a brother (the sort of brother that always needs money and help), and never hesitated to lend my aide to.
He then turned on my other friend Reid (the other guy who paid for the cart) and attack him in a similar fashion after deleting him from facebook and changing his phone number and everything. Tom and I were groomsman in Reid's wedding party, that is how tight knit we were. This action from Tom was absolutely out of nowhere. No prior problems, nothing.
When Reid asked what the fuck was going through his head Tom had this to say:
"I need to move on. I don't want anything to do with Dutton, or anyone who lives there. My mom is fucked in the head and if I don't get away from that place I will end up the same. The fact that you want someone to come to your wedding who wants nothing to do with you is pathetic. So just lose my number and forget I exist. You won't hear from me again."
He backed out of Reid's Jamaican wedding, which he got a free ride to because he claimed he had no money, last minute and told us all to fuck off.
So, I can assure you, from very personal experience.
You are going to hurt, you are going to be so mad you want to burn the world, but it will pass.
I was betrayed by one of my oldest friends in the world out of the blue for reasons that are utterly insane, and I survived.
Time and maybe someone to talk to about it will get you through the bullshit.
